Will Mulvaney, TX
"I've worked with Tim for a few months now and it's changed my life! I'm now much more confident approaching strangers and I'm able to confidently put myself into situations I never would have before. My dating life has improved to the point where I now have multiple dates every week with incredible women!"
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Jeremy Roye, TX
"I've always had this fear of approaching and talking to ... well, just about anyone, particularly in group situations. Working with Tim has been transformative for me. His ability to break things down clearly and provide a fresh, human/holistic perspective has completely shifted the way I think about approaching and meeting new people, especially those I'm attracted to. Tim is a true master at what he does, a sweet dude, and I'm incredibly grateful for his guidance and expertise."
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Dillon Perry, TX
"I can't emphasize this enough, working with Tim has truly been a life-changing experience for me. I used to struggle with social anxiety, making it difficult for me to approach and interact with people. Thanks to Tim’s guidance and support, I’ve gained the confidence and tools I needed to overcome my social anxiety. I can now easily approach others and engage in meaningful conversations."
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You’ve found success in your career and in your life, but when it comes to dating you feel stuck.
Right now, you're having a hard time getting more dates. And really who can blame you? Today, our entire dating process has been relegated to technology. A 2020 study conducted by Bumble found that only 19% of men who messaged with someone on the app went on a date. Those are pretty grim odds and your time is valuable.
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You don't just need dates, you need high quality dates. With the women who are thrilled to be in your presence. Who understand you're not like everyone they've met before. Who show up open, receptive and looking to have fun. Who are looking to grow an exciting, fulfilling life with a quality guy.
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But how long are you prepared to wait until you get that perfect Hollywood moment where she just seamlessly falls into your arms at just the right moment?
This is the fight of your life.
A Different Approach
The dating coaches and pickup artists out there today are more than happy to help you overanalyze and overthink every granular aspect of approach to essencially get more clicks on their videos and sell you more programs. But there's nothing actually meaningful beneath their methods, strategies and pickup lines.
The Art of Approach equips you with the simplest yet most powerful framework that underlies every interaction you might have, so that no matter what situation you find yourself in (i.e. can't think of what to say, how to approach a group, or when she's walking), you'll know exactly what to do.
Hi! I'm Tim Bray and I'm your approach coach.
My passion is helping people create connection and love in the world. I've been coaching people struggling with approach anxiety for over a year, and they've all seen incredible results.
Like many of you, I wasn't educated on the courtship process. I had traumatic experiences that convinced me I was unworthy of love. But when I learned how to approach and talk to anyone, it was life-changing.
Now, I have more dates, more friends, and more freedom. And that's why I'm here; to share what I've learned with you.
Introducing The Art of Approach Podcast on Spotify.
In this podcast we explore the world of dating and approach and set out to specifically uncover the common things that hold us back from pursuing the women of our dreams. Join us in learning how to become better men, better lovers and how to meet and date the most high quality, high caliber women whenever you want.
Nigel Interviews Tim
In this episode of Nigel at Night, Nigel sits down with Tim Bray, who works with men who have stopped using dating apps but struggle to approach and meet new women in person. Bray, who is a real-life hitch, shares his journey of feeling worthy of connection and the importance of connection in life. He shares his struggles with bullying and loneliness, and how his recent journey into the field of dating coaching was driven by the realization that what truly matters in life is connection and relationships.
“Every step toward beauty moves him away from the teeming multitude of boys and into the rarefied realm of men. Every turning toward beauty saves his life.”
Zan Perrion, The Alabaster Girl